Top 10 Mistakes PM/PMO Leaders are Making (and how to solve them TODAY!)

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"I wish I had me when I was you..." That expresses precisely how I feel each time a project manager or PMO leader tells me a story about their frustrations encountered while trying to create effective and sustainable change, build (or fix) a PMO, or deliver projects successfully. I always think to myself…I wish I knew then what I know now. I’ve made it my mission to share with you everything that I have learned while creating change and building PMOs in both large and small organizations for the last 24 years, many of those years as an employee in the "hot seat" responsible for building internal capability. I’m hoping these articles help you along your journey as you continue to evolve and develop skills and techniques to be the high-IMPACT leader you are meant to be. Learn more at

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I built my first PMO in the 90s (yes, in the last century!) and the truth is that I had no idea what I was doing! BUT, I had a Get. It. Done. attitude and a desire to learn and boy did I learn! A lot. I made a lot of mistakes and I learned a thing or two over the following two decades of putting PMOs and PM best practices in place.  Now that I teach and coach others the art of successful project management and PMO implementation, I am seeing some of the same mistakes I used to make when I was first starting out. I see PMOs that had a real chance of success getting bogged down in the not so important, while opportunity passes them by (as does their next promotion). While there are many things we can do wrong, there are MANY MORE things we CAN do right.

Here are the top ten mistakes I wish I had known to avoid when I was in your shoes (and most importantly, what to do about it). I hope this saves you from learning the hard way, as I often did.

  1. Suffering from “Me Too” Syndrome

Your execs go off to a conference or read an article and next thing you know, “we have to do that because everyone else is.” Sound familiar? Yeah, well, just because everyone else is doing it doesn’t mean it is going to make the most sense for you. You better be crystal clear on exactly what business problem you are trying to solve if you are going to make the time, money, and energy investment into an undertaking like putting in new PM practices or starting a PMO.

  1. Building the wrong type of PMO

Sadly, many PMO leaders start building an organization or putting templates and processes in place before they figure out what services will actually get the biggest bang for the buck in the organization. You need to figure out what your customers need help with first. Then DO THAT. Start with asking the right questions. Determine the “P” for your PMO. Are you going to provide project management support? Will you provide governance and portfolio oversight?  Do they need coaching of PMs that aren’t reporting to the PMO?

Think about who you want to be when you grow up…do you want to be the policing organization that everyone fears or do you want to be the support organization that everyone turns to when they need to Get. It. Done?

  1. Blaming the culture

It’s very easy to say the reason your PMO isn’t working is because you don’t have the support or people don’t “get it” and it’s not your fault. It feels like you just keep pushing that boulder up the hill and it keeps rolling back down. I totally get it. I’ve lived that slow and agonizing nightmare of change resistance around every corner. What I learned, however, was to focus on what I could control and the rest would come along…eventually.

Yes, you must practice patience, but even more importantly, we must learn how to do change WITH people instead of TO them. People are not resistant to change. They are resistant to change being DONE TO them. So, next time you feel like you can’t get the support you need on your project, look at what you could do to bring people (as partners) with you through the process, including their insights and ideas along the way.

  1. Measuring the wrong things

As a PM or PMO leader, your job is to drive business results and create value and IMPACT for the organization. You are NOT there because they want more templates or tools. You are there because they want a greater return on the investment they are making in their projects. Projects are costing too much, taking too long, or failing to deliver the value intended.

Solve. That. Problem.

From this point forward, you are no longer a PMO leader or project manager. Think of yourself as an investment manager for the organization. Because you are. They have given you some of their investment dollars (a.k.a. budget) to complete a project that will achieve some value or outcome for the organization that is worth more to them than the original investment of time, money and resources. It is your fiduciary responsibility to optimize the spend and get the greatest return on that investment possible. That means you need to be focused on more than the triple constraint. Earned Value Measurement will only take you so far. EVM will tell you how your budget and schedule are performing, but won’t tell you a darn thing about actual VALUE achieved. Did the revenue we expected to gain or the expense reduction we expected to see happen?

THAT is what the business wants to know. THAT is what the business is asking you deliver.

  1. Methodology abuse 

When first tasked with building out PM capability, what’s the first thing most people do? They start building process and templates or start redesigning what’s already there to make sure it’s more “holistic.” We then spend months (or years) building out templates and process and then trying desperately to educate everyone on our methodology we are so proud of, all while they run and hide. What’s worse is that we have spent precious time using company resources to build things yet we haven’t delivered any value yet. I know, you feel like all those templates will provide value, but all your leadership and stakeholders see is that they invested in you a year ago and not one project has gotten done better, faster, or cheaper since.

Instead of spending time focusing on perfecting that methodology, go get something done! Find a team or a project you can help improve and then do that. Quickly. Then another, then another. This will help you more clearly define the need/gap you can fill and test out your services…all before you have spent a year building templates and process that may not actually serve you well once you see the services you should implement.

And if you already have best practices and process in place. Your job, today, not next week or next year, is to start simplifying it! Make lives easier. Make it easier to get things done. You do this and you become an invaluable asset to the organization.

  1. Tools gone wild

When I start with a new client and I’m helping to setup an IT PMO (or an IT leader is leading the charge), I can almost guarantee they will have purchased a tool before they’ve even engaged me. Inevitably, they start implementing a tool and meet such change resistance with their stakeholders that the entire PMO future hangs in the balance.

Tools are the last step in the process, not the first. You must figure out what business problems you are solving, what services you are going to provide, make sure your stakeholders all understand the fundamentals of project management and how to engage properly in the process, then you can start putting a tool in place that meets the needs of the stakeholders.

  1. Missing the marketing

Make sure that you are telling the story of the value you are creating with your PMO. Recognize and celebrate the wins publicly. Tie the project completion to the value and impact your PMO was responsible for creating. Just make sure you are doing it in the language that the business understands. Talk about the business problems you are solving. Talk about the transformation that is taking place. Make it real for people. And make sure to have a set of key metrics that ties PMO success to the success of the value and impacts you are creating.

  1. Burying stakeholders in reports

If your sponsor has ever gotten stuck on the bottom of page 4 on some element of your status report and you can’t get them to refocus on the action or decision you need from them before the top of the hour, then you need to right-size your reporting.

Doing too much of the wrong communication or spending countless hours on meaningless and time-consuming reporting will prevent you from spending your time on delivery. Think about every document you create, every report you produce and ever meeting you attend or schedule. Every bit of communication should be tied to value and outcomes you can create. If not, stop doing it. No one needs to hear for the third time this week how Joe is doing on this piece of the project.

  1. Sponsor abuse

We expect a lot from our sponsors (and should), but often we do so without understanding how to best support them so that they can support us. We also assume our sponsors actually know how to be good sponsors. Many of them don’t. If your sponsor isn’t engaged or you can’t get them to make decisions, then it’s time to TRAIN THEM on the role and what we expect from them.

Start by figuring out their WIIFM (what’s in it for me) and how they will benefit when this project is successful (and how much pain they will be in if it’s not). Then we need to set expectations with them, starting with how you will support them and how you will be working to ensure their success (according to that WIIFM). Then, you can start asking for what you need from them. Use their power for good (not evil) to get their peer to make that resource you need available, but be careful not to dilute your own power by saying “sponsor said” when you need cooperation from staff.

  1. Misusing talent

I always looked for help when I was tasked with starting a PMO. I needed staff to help me with ideas and to execute our plans and I needed advisors to provide me a sanity check or guide me in the best way to get the PMO up and running quickly.  What I learned is what works in one place, may not work so well in another. It’s all about finding the right team and then doing this change together. Make sure you don’t bring in all your own people.  They are likely to have the same mindset and ideas you have, which will limit your diversity in thinking and idea generation. They may also have the same blind spots and weaknesses. Diversity is king here, which means you will need to learn to adjust your management style to each individual personality. :)

Sometimes we bring in consultants and then let them “do” the project management or PMO implementation for us. Don’t do it. Please, don’t. I’m not saying you cannot have temporary staff (a.k.a. contractors) performing project management for you. That’s fine. But if you completely outsource your PMO setup, you will either have to make those people permanent or the “life” of your PMO leaves when they walk out the door. You must ingrain the changes you want into the culture and behaviors of the people that will be around for the long haul. Make sure you find yourself the kind of consulting team that will teach you and the organization to fish instead of doing the fishing for you. They will help you build that internal competency and be a partner to you along the way, strategically encouraging the weaning process as soon as you can fish for yourself.

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Informative article. Thanks

Very good article, thanks Laura for sharing

Thanks Laura nice set of advice

That is so true Laura: "Tools are the last step in the process, not the first". Most organizations think a tool is the answer to everything.

Very good and informative, Laura.

Very informative.

Thanks Laura nice sharing

Great article. Thanks!

Very very appropriate and great tips. Thanks for penning these down.

another great read...thanks for posting.

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