Dealing with Career Disappointment
The older ones among us know that “You can't always get what you want. But if you try sometimes, well, you might find you get what you need.” I’m pretty sure that the Rolling Stones song isn’t about a career in project management, but it could be. (I know, that’s going to need a little bit of explanation…)
Any career, in any profession, is likely to contain some disappointments. I don’t know of anyone who has been successful at each step along the way on their first attempt. There will be times when you are passed over for promotion, when you aren’t hired for the job that you believe that you would be perfect for, or when you aren’t successful in delivering that high-profile initiative that could have turbo-charged your career progress. It happens to us all.
However, how you react to those setbacks can make all the difference. If you look at them as an opportunity to grow, as a lesson that will help you improve, then—at least with a little hindsight— “you might find, you get what you need.”
The power of perspective
A number of years ago, I was interviewed for a CEO position with a membership organization in a discipline closely related to project management. Given my background with projects and related work, I felt that I was a strong candidate, and I went through a number of rounds of
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