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If you are moving to resign, who would you tell first?

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Riyadh Salih Saskatchewan, Canada
Will you tell your team first or your boss?
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Dinah Young Project Manager / Software Asset Manager| Prince William County Springfield, Va, United States
My partner will probably know before I do :) . I would have informed him every step of the way as I was looking for a new job, interviewing and getting offers. I would have discussed with him whether I should consider and accept the new offer. Knowing me I would be overthinking everything, stressing about if this is the right thing to do and he would have let me vent to him any concerns knowing what I will ultimately do.
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2 replies by Riyadh Salih and Sante Delle-Vergini, PhD
Jun 20, 2018 5:47 PM
Sante Delle-Vergini, PhD
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You might have done a risk analysis Dinah ;-)
Jun 20, 2018 10:22 PM
Riyadh Salih
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Dinah, that's absolutely right
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Rami Kaibni
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Senior Projects Manager | Field & Marten Associates New Westminster, British Columbia, Canada
When its time to do so, and I am sure, I will verbally inform my company and follow the notice protocol.
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Jun 20, 2018 10:23 PM
Riyadh Salih
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Yes Rami, it is two weeks notice right
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Bala Sripada Hyderabad, Ap, India
Your Manager first and then the team...after your resignation has been formally accepted.
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Jun 20, 2018 10:24 PM
Riyadh Salih
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Thanks Bala
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Cheikh FAYE Microsoft Dynamics 365 Business Expert, CEO and owner| Eurêka Technologies Dakar, Senegal
The worst experience in my professional life was when a senior team member tried to position me in better structure without referring to the boss.
The consequences were disastrous, he was simply fired and I was constrained to follow him by solidarity. Since then I had retained the lesson; the hierarchy must be fully respected: the boss first and any other person next.
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Jun 20, 2018 10:26 PM
Riyadh Salih
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Cheikh, looks like that senior has a short hand, no big approach & influence in the company but yeah I heard you
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Jennifer Schuff Senior Project Manager| AmeriSourceBergen Plymouth Meeting, Pa, United States
When I was in this position and I managed a team directly, I told my manager first because that is professional courtesy. I then had an open discussion with her about wanting to be the one to inform my team. They could counter-offer and they could ask you leave immediately. You have to be prepared for both a good and bad situation. You should always stick to professional courtesy though in order to not "burn your bridges".
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Jun 20, 2018 10:30 PM
Riyadh Salih
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Jennifer, wow that possibility is there too, do you mean they would waive your 2 weeks notice?
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Riyadh Salih Saskatchewan, Canada
Andrew,Tiago, Paul, Joshua, Thanks for your feedback I totally agree with you the manager first as not to ruin the moment to see the shock and awe when you give him the 2 weeks notice.
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Riyadh Salih Saskatchewan, Canada
Jun 20, 2018 4:09 AM
Replying to Banaja Bhaduri
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I would tell this to my team first. I feel my team should know it directly from me as I always feel closely connected to my team. I shall not take long to inform my boss also. May be just one after another. It is surely my personal preference.
Banaja, It is different here in N. America the team wont move with you like in India or you wont be able to take the team with you. Thanks for your feedback.
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Riyadh Salih Saskatchewan, Canada
Jun 20, 2018 4:26 AM
Replying to DILEEP KUMAR RAROTH
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The information of your leaving need to be informed to your boss first. Boss might have his own views and suggestions that might invoke interest of both the parties. At times your final decision of leaving itself could be "dramatically" influenced by the result of the discussions you had with your boss, depending up on the context of your leaving.

On the other hand; if you tell your team first and the boss comes to know from others' mouth, it would put him in an embarrassing position, though it should not have any impact ( on you since you are leaving) in true sense. However, this would set a wrong precedence in the organization itself which would be undesirable.

Secondly; if you need to reconcile your decision at a later stage, it would put you in an uneasy situation in front of your team mates which can be well avoided if you keep the information away from them until the decision is finalized and alternative arrangements are made by your boss.

Ethically, it is the primary responsibility of the leaving employee to ensure that the activities of the organization are not at all jeopardized nor the morale of any stake holder is hurt.

The notice period comes in to effect to negate the hick-ups that may occur on accout of leaving of an employee.
Dileep, thanks for good analogy but once you submit your resign you should not accept buy-back. I agree manager first
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Riyadh Salih Saskatchewan, Canada
Jun 20, 2018 7:38 AM
Replying to Kiron Bondale
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Riyadh -

HR matters are always best dealt with via the normal channels which would be your people manager. Given the potential impacts on the team, you'll want to work with your manager to develop a transition strategy so that you will communicate not just "I'm leaving" but also "and here's how things will be handled in the near term after I'm gone".

Kiron
Thank Kiron, nice ethics to say "to develop a transition strategy " if you're not leaving because of that LOL.
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Riyadh Salih Saskatchewan, Canada
Jun 20, 2018 8:23 AM
Replying to Sante Delle-Vergini, PhD
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My partner ;-)
Sante, LOL looks like you're still trying to figure out marriage a project or operation :-)
Like Dinah mentioned very nice about the partner would knows first all your movement
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