Luis BrancoCEO| Business Insight, Consultores de Gestão, LdªCarcavelos, Lisboa, Portugal
In your opinion, who practices the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People is Emotionally Intelligent?
What is the relationship between the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (by Stephen Covey) and Emotional Intelligence? (by Wayne Payne and popularized by Daniel Goleman) Saving Changes...
Alexandre CostaScrum Master| Integer Consulting - Pictet technologiesLoures, Portugal
Jan 20, 2020 4:32 PM
Replying to George Freeman
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Alexandre,
The practical intelligence, that is, as you stated, “how to solve daily problems,” would be a given for a project manager; otherwise, one would not be able to perform their duties.
Emotional Intelligence is not self-help; it’s a practical skill (i.e., a soft skill) that one must desire and then acquire. With that in mind, Mindfulness is the same, and when put together with EI -- leadership potential is unbounded.
My point is this: In the context of leadership and project management, EI and Mindfulness reside in the practical realm. Are their stigmas associated with them, yes, but these are largely carry-overs from their therapy basis.
George, First I said that I was not fan of self-help books, never said that emotional intelligence is self-help. Second I do not agree with you that practical intelligence would be a given state for a project manager, nothing is given all must be worked and trained and even so there are remarkable, good, reasonable and bad project managers.
Third the concept is not mine is from Robert Sternberg and The triarchic theory of intelligence incorporates three types of intelligence.
Practical intelligence is the intelligence of common sense reasoning. Some people call it street smarts. It’s the ability to think on your feet in everyday dilemmas that require immediate solutions.
This form of intelligence also helps in navigating tough negotiations and embracing challenges on the fly. Those with practical intelligence are adaptive and reflexive. They change their approach to suit the requirements of the environment and situation.
Those with strong practical intelligence stand out. Here are two crucial habits that will help you grow your practical intelligence: 1 - Openness and flexibility 2 - Solution-focused thinking
So you must also desire and aquire and develop like emotional intelligence.
I believe all so called normal persons have some degree of every denominated intelligence, some more developed than others , it's our responsability to find what are our week points and develop to balance our actions through life or project management if you prefer.
Alexandre.
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1 reply by Luis Branco
Jan 22, 2020 5:52 AM
Luis Branco
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Dear Alexandre
Thank you for your comment, although I consider that, in this topic, it does not add great value in answer to the question: "Who practices the 7 Habits is Emotionally Intelligent?"
Well I know what word pulls word :-)
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Thomas WalentaGlobal Project Economy ExpertHackenheim, Germany
Jan 20, 2020 4:22 PM
Replying to Luis Branco
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Dear Thomas
Thank you for participating in this reflection and for your opinion
Did you have the opportunity to read what I wrote about emotional intelligence, the five elements of emotional intelligence and the specific characterization of each of these elements?
I would really like to know if you agree with what I wrote about emotional intelligence
Luis
I agree mostly about your description of EI. I call the last component not social skills but influence in the context of leadership. My view on EI is expressed in this article I created on LinkedIn based on your nudging the topic here. Thanks for stimulating.
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1 reply by Luis Branco
Jan 22, 2020 6:03 AM
Luis Branco
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Dear Thomas
Thank you for your comment
I didn't read this article you wrote on Linkedln
Can you share the link?
After your comment, I can conclude that we have one to jointly reflect on the Emotional Intelligence theme
Daniel Goldman, the person who popularized Emotional Intelligence, calls it "Social Skills" which, in my opinion, is more comprehensive than "influence in the context of leadership"
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Tim LowderProfessor of Management| Saint Leo UniversitySaint Leo, Fl, United States
Covey's 7-Habits Model possesses a great group of processes for doing business from a mental perspective and addresses the necessary steps to change one's perceptions. However, I don't think the 7-Habits sufficiently covers one's spiritual and emotional perspectives, particularly concerning how one thinks about doing business. I believe that Covey significantly covered many aspects of Emotional Intelligence in his Principle-Centered Leadership Model.
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1 reply by Luis Branco
Jan 21, 2020 9:28 AM
Luis Branco
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Dear Tim
Thank you for participating in this reflection and for your opinion
Did you have the opportunity to read what I wrote about emotional intelligence, the five elements of emotional intelligence and the specific characterization of each of these elements?
I would really like to know if you agree with what I wrote about emotional intelligence
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Luis BrancoCEO| Business Insight, Consultores de Gestão, LdªCarcavelos, Lisboa, Portugal
Jan 21, 2020 8:56 AM
Replying to Tim Lowder
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Covey's 7-Habits Model possesses a great group of processes for doing business from a mental perspective and addresses the necessary steps to change one's perceptions. However, I don't think the 7-Habits sufficiently covers one's spiritual and emotional perspectives, particularly concerning how one thinks about doing business. I believe that Covey significantly covered many aspects of Emotional Intelligence in his Principle-Centered Leadership Model.
Dear Tim
Thank you for participating in this reflection and for your opinion
Did you have the opportunity to read what I wrote about emotional intelligence, the five elements of emotional intelligence and the specific characterization of each of these elements?
I would really like to know if you agree with what I wrote about emotional intelligence Saving Changes...
Peter RapinSubject Matter Expect; Project Delivery| Independent ConsultantOntario, Canada
Emotional Intelligence (EQ)
Know oneself
Accept responsibility for oneself
Plan for oneself
Recognize the "oneselfness" in others (they are no different than you)
Most definitions of EQ do not include the last point - understanding the emotions of others. I think this is key to be truly emotionally intelligent.
As to the Seven Habits of Effective People, there are common elements with EQ and I don't believe one can be an effective leader without a high degree of EQ. However I see EQ as a state whereas Seven Habits is more of a procedure or process (a checklist?),
Someone with a high degree of EQ would tend to have the Seven Habits (most anyway) but following the Seven Habits would not necessarily result is a high degree of EQ.
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1 reply by Luis Branco
Jan 22, 2020 6:05 AM
Luis Branco
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Dear Peter
Thank you for participating in this reflection and for your opinion
Did you have the opportunity to read what I wrote about emotional intelligence, the five elements of emotional intelligence and the specific characterization of each of these elements?
I would really like to know if you agree with what I wrote about emotional intelligence
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Ed Tsyitee JrConsultant | Consultant Tucson, Az, United States
I've never read that book or heard of that thesis. I am familiar with the discussion of emotional intelligence and how it applies to effective leadership. I know that having a strong sense of empathy is key to that.
Usually you see emotional intelligence being applied to servant leadership rather than the more familiar "lead from the front" leadership style.
The habits to me are rigid. Habits change and reform depending on circumstances and events.
So to have set habits as described by Covey and a strong emotional intelligence doesn't seem to fit.
Personally, I like kaizen-constant improvement in everything in every way every day.
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1 reply by Luis Branco
Jan 22, 2020 6:08 AM
Luis Branco
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Dear Ed
Thank you for participating in this reflection and for your opinion
Did you have the opportunity to read what I wrote about emotional intelligence, the five elements of emotional intelligence and the specific characterization of each of these elements?
I would really like to know if you agree with what I wrote about emotional intelligence
Dear Stéphane I would like you to validate the concept of emotional intelligence and the elements
So, What is Emotional Intelligence? Emotional intelligence is the ability to manage your emotions and understand both your emotions and the emotions of people around you.
People who are highly emotionally intelligent are aware of their own feelings, what those feelings mean, and how they affect other people around them.
They also have the ability to handle other people’s emotions, which is crucial for the right leader.
There are five important elements to emotional intelligence:
The more of these you have in check, the higher your emotional intelligence is.
I'd like to add
1. Compassion
2. Resilience
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1 reply by Luis Branco
Jan 22, 2020 6:12 AM
Luis Branco
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Dear Muthukrishnan
Thank you for participating in this reflection and for your opinion
Are these two points that you added (certainly important) integrated into what has been defined as Emotional Intelligence?
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Soumen DeyPM I| Willis Towers WatsonKolkata, West Bengal, India
Luis,
I face challenges in motivation for the team members who work in a Project. There are groups at different levels in my project starting from Functional managers, individual contributors like developers, testers and infrastructure team and architects. All these groups have different motivational factors based on the role they play in the project. While as I project manager I get motivated when I complete the project within time and budget but fail to cope up to the motivational factors of the Stakeholders involved. This sometimes hampers the progress as individuals lack passion in the delivery. Any suggestions would really be helpful
Thanks
Soumen
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1 reply by Luis Branco
Jan 22, 2020 6:14 AM
Luis Branco
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Dear Soumen
Thank you for participating in this reflection and for your opinion
Did you have the opportunity to read what I wrote about emotional intelligence, the five elements of emotional intelligence and the specific characterization of each of these elements?
I would really like to know if you agree with what I wrote about emotional intelligence
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Elok Robert TeeProject Manager| ST Engineering ElectronicsPasir Ris, Singapore
Jan 20, 2020 12:32 PM
Replying to Daire Guiney
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Dear Luis,
A person who is more engaged with their team, management, community and society is a person who would display 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (by Stephen Covey). They are related but distinct topics in their own right with Stephen Covey's interpretation a subset of emotional intelligence. People who use emotional intelligence in their jobs would be health care professional and teachers who in order to do their jobs need to understand the state of their pupils and patients. Empathy is the most important aspect of emotional intelligence, "putting yourself in someone else shoes" in order to understand their mindset. If we can understand the person we can understand the problem.
Daire
I agree wholeheartedly with Daire that "if we can understand the person we can understand the problem". IMO the major cause of problems, especially in project type work is people themselves. Emotional intelligence without any practice will get us only so far, but making it habitual may get us further with what we are doing e.g. thru' self-regulation, .
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1 reply by Luis Branco
Jan 22, 2020 6:16 AM
Luis Branco
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Dear Elok
Thank you for participating in this reflection and for your opinion
Did you have the opportunity to read what I wrote about emotional intelligence, the five elements of emotional intelligence and the specific characterization of each of these elements?
I would really like to know if you agree with what I wrote about emotional intelligence
Dear Stéphane I would like you to validate the concept of emotional intelligence and the elements
So, What is Emotional Intelligence? Emotional intelligence is the ability to manage your emotions and understand both your emotions and the emotions of people around you.
People who are highly emotionally intelligent are aware of their own feelings, what those feelings mean, and how they affect other people around them.
They also have the ability to handle other people’s emotions, which is crucial for the right leader.
There are five important elements to emotional intelligence:
The more of these you have in check, the higher your emotional intelligence is.
I agree with all this, in both cases when you are involved with the site team and top management.
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1 reply by Luis Branco
Jan 22, 2020 6:20 AM
Luis Branco
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Dear Ahmad
Thank you for participating in this reflection and for your opinion
If you agree with what I wrote about Emotional Intelligence, we are in a position to start exchanging opinions about the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People