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Are we still being ourselves when we use AI?

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Mayte Mata Sivera PMO Leader | Speaker | Author Ut, United States

I have been part of this community for about 10 years or more. When I look back at some of my old posts, discussions and polls, I see grammar mistakes, misspellings, and sentences that were not perfect. But they were mine. We didn’t have grammar tools, no edit button, and for sure, no AI helping us write.

Now, everything looks more polished. The grammar is perfect, the sentences flow smoothly. My editor used to tell me about things like em dashes, oxford commas and suddenly I see them everywhere.
Yes, I use AI too. It helps. But I still want to sound like myself.

So I want to ask the community, especially long-time members and friends Kiron Bondale Rami Kaibni Aaron Porter Yasmina Khelifi Eduard Hernandez  

Are we using AI too much and losing our personal voice? Are we still writing as ourselves, or are we letting AI speak for us?

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Rami Kaibni
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Senior Projects Manager | Field & Marten Associates New Westminster, British Columbia, Canada

Mayte, I still write from my own experience and perspective so my voice is very much my own. I do sometimes use AI to refine the wording or clean up grammar, but the thoughts, ideas, and intent are entirely mine. It’s more of a helpful editor than a ghostwriter.

That said, I do believe that overusing AI especially relying on it to generate thoughts or entire pieces can gradually dilute your personal voice. The key is balance. AI should support your writing, not replace it. Our imperfections, quirks, and style are what make our writing unique, and that’s something worth holding onto in my opinion.

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3 replies by Alaa Alnafori, Zakaria Botros, and albara monaser
Apr 14, 2026 8:36 AM
Alaa Alnafori
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totally agree with you your writing style is different and I think it is unique
Apr 28, 2026 2:02 PM
albara monaser
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I strongly support your opinion, while emphasizing the need to deal with artificial intelligence with extreme caution.
May 21, 2026 12:20 PM
Zakaria Botros
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Rami, I like how you frame AI as more of an editor than a creator.
It does make me wonder though — at what point does “refining” start shifting into quietly reshaping our voice?
Curious how you personally keep that line clear when using it.
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Yasmina Khelifi Senior Project Manager Paris, France
Dear Mayte, I use AI to correct grammar and spelling, making my sentences clearer or more concise (as you know, I need to shorten sentences) in emails, etc. But the ideas are mine.
I use AI to improve my writing.
For the comments, I have Grammarly set up on my computer, so the widget pops up to correct and improve the writing and make it sound more idiomatic.
I am not sure that being our own voices means writing with mistakes or punctuation errors. I'm glad if my text sounds more idiomatic and can be understood more easily, and avoid misunderstanding.
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Luis Branco CEO| Business Insight, Consultores de Gestão, Ldª Carcavelos, Lisboa, Portugal

Mayte Mata Sivera
This is a beautifully honest reflection — and an important one.

I often say: authenticity isn't about imperfection; it's about intention.

Yes, AI can polish.
It can correct our grammar, improve flow, even help us structure our thinking.
But it cannot replace the voice that comes from lived experience, values, and purpose, unless we let it.

The real question isn't “are we using AI?”
It's “how are we using it?”

- Are we outsourcing our thinking?
- Or are we augmenting our clarity?

Personally, I use AI as a thinking partner, not a ghostwriter.
I want my ideas to benefit from refinement, but not to be filtered into uniformity.
I want to remain recognizably me.

So maybe the challenge is not to reject the tools, but to stay rooted in authorship.
AI should help us express ourselves, not replace ourselves.

Thanks for sparking this essential conversation.

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Aaron Porter
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IT Director| Blade HQ Payson, UT, United States
I get the most value out of AI as a research tool and running ideas past it to see if I'm missing or overlooking something. I will admit, that if I'm doing something a little more on the academic side and using AI as a research tool, it can bleed into what I write. It was both amusing and annoying when I was replying to someone on Reddit and my post got blocked because it was considered an AI response. I had to completely rewrite my response, but I think it turned out better.
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Luis Branco CEO| Business Insight, Consultores de Gestão, Ldª Carcavelos, Lisboa, Portugal

Mayte Mata Sivera

As a practical note:
I’ve been attending several LinkedIn Learning courses recently, and I find it telling that many instructors, across domains, don’t just accept AI; they integrate it purposefully.

In some of these courses, AI shows up not merely as a tool, but as a dialogue partner with simulations where learners practice engaging with AI to explore better outcomes, alternative structures, or clearer communication.

This reinforces an important idea:
AI isn’t a shortcut for those who don’t want to think - it’s an amplifier for those who do.

Like any powerful tool, it requires discernment.
But rejecting it entirely is a bit like refusing to use a calculator because we value doing math by hand — valid in some cases, limiting in others.

The key remains the same: authorship and intention.
And your post is a timely reminder of both.

Because in the end, either we evolve or we become irrelevant.
The choice is ours.

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Kiron Bondale Retired | Mentor| Retired Welland, Ontario, Canada
Mayte -

Cromwell's famous quote to paint him "warts and all" comes to mind.

When it comes to my writing, I've certainly used Gen AI tools to refine the few blog posts I've done since late 2023, but for comments on discussions and other informal writing I prefer to do it "au naturel".

If we continually rely on AI to rewrite our content, we lose our personal style and this is just one more step to irrelevance.

Kiron
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Eduard Hernandez
Community Champion
Product Operations Program Manager Barcelona, Cataluña, Spain
Before LLM became available, I used Grammarly to review my texts and blogs.

Nowadays, ChatGPT has taken over the "corrector" role. On one hand, I have noticed that in some occasions, the corrections lead to a standard / soul-less tone, which I then try to manually fix. On the other, it seems that ChatGPT has come to learn the way I say things and the tone I use in my texts, which is useful but also scary.

In sum, as others have pointed out, it is essential to strike a good balance and use LLMs in a rational manner to ensure that our uniqueness comes through.
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1 reply by Ann Hazzart, PMP
May 26, 2026 10:58 PM
Ann Hazzart, PMP
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I also used Grammarly or Editor and my Literature skillset
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Pavan Maddi
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Buona Vista, Singapore

AI can polish our words, but it can’t replace our voice unless we let it. The key is intent using AI as a tool to clarify, not to mask who we are. Authenticity shows in the stories, reflections, and experiences we share, not just in grammar. The “self” remains, as long as we choose to keep it present.

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Francisco Matheus Chagas
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Project & PMO Manager | Research & Enterprise Mentor| GFB Holding South America, Brazil

You've hit on a critical point: the rise of AI tools has created an unspoken competition. When everyone's posts are perfectly grammatical and well-phrased thanks to AI, it subtly raises the bar for communication. Our unedited thoughts, with their natural imperfections, can suddenly feel inadequate. This invisible pressure to keep up, to achieve an AI-level of polish, can lead to significant stress and psychological strain. We become concerned that our genuine voice might not be taken seriously if it doesn't meet this new, AI-driven standard. So, are we losing our personal voice or letting AI speak for us? It's a risk. While AI can refine our messages, relying on it purely to meet this hidden competitive standard can dilute our unique identity. The key is to use AI as an aid to enhance our voice, not to replace it, preserving our authenticity in an increasingly polished digital world.

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Lissette Indhira Pimentel Sosa
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Program Manager| HARPER SRL Santo Domingo / Distrito Nacional, Dominican Republic

I think this hits a nerve for many of us. AI can polish our words, but it can’t replace the intent, emotions, and experiences behind them. To me, the “voice” isn’t just about grammar,it’s about perspective, nuance, and authenticity. When I use AI, I see it as an assistant that helps with clarity, but I make sure to re-read and adjust so my personality still shines through. Tools should amplify, not overwrite, who we are.

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1 reply by Alaa Alnafori
Apr 14, 2026 8:46 AM
Alaa Alnafori
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