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Is humility an important leader's characteristic?

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fosco frongia Senior project manager| ENTE PATRIMONIALE CHIESA GESU' CRISTO SUG Fino Mornasco, Como, Italy
Before to answer my question I would like to explain what i define Humility: I don't consider the humility with a negative meaning (feeling inferior to others and have little self-esteem) but as the serene awareness of our limits - seen as something natural and characteristic of all human beings - and their quality - seen as equally natural and present in all people - as well as the ability and opportunity to learn from everything and everyone.
I think that, in this meaning, humility is an important strength for a leader because allows to connect better whit other people and allows to identify the most important characteristics and qualities of others.
Do you agree with my consideration? and, if you don't agree, for which reason?
Thanks
Fosco
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fosco frongia Senior project manager| ENTE PATRIMONIALE CHIESA GESU' CRISTO SUG Fino Mornasco, Como, Italy
Jan 31, 2016 10:33 PM
Replying to Rami Kaibni
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Of course I do agree with you. Humility is the quality of being humble - Being humble is a great thing and strength and you can interact with people better than arrogance for sure.
Thanks Rami for your comment. your comment point out about an important theme: in the communication the attitude through we transmit the message... is a part of the message!
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Feb 02, 2016 2:25 AM
Rami Kaibni
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This is true, it is always about the pitch, tone, body language so usually when you are arrogant while talking to people, they might understand 40% of what you said because 60% of their mind is occupied thinking how much they do not like the attitude.
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fosco frongia Senior project manager| ENTE PATRIMONIALE CHIESA GESU' CRISTO SUG Fino Mornasco, Como, Italy
Feb 01, 2016 4:12 AM
Replying to Eduard Hernandez
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I recommend the webinar "9 Habits of Effective Team Building for Project Managers" by Bruce Harpham, which addresses this topic and provides tips on how to engage team members in a project
Thanks Eduard for your suggestion, surely I will looking for it
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fosco frongia Senior project manager| ENTE PATRIMONIALE CHIESA GESU' CRISTO SUG Fino Mornasco, Como, Italy
Feb 01, 2016 6:34 AM
Replying to Sergio Luis Conte
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After survive to multiple managemet styles along the years applied for my managers I found that servant leadership is the most effective. Inside the model there is not an attribute related to humility. On the other side, humility is related to recognize the proper strenght and weekness. And that is always important to improve yourself.
Thanks Sergio for your comment, your point of view is very interesting. I agree around the servant leadership and agree regarding humility is not an attribute of it. In any case I think the humility can influence it due to the recognition of our strength and weakness allow to consider that the others are "affected" by strength and weakness too and, in this manner we can apply the correct "dose" of flexibility
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fosco frongia Senior project manager| ENTE PATRIMONIALE CHIESA GESU' CRISTO SUG Fino Mornasco, Como, Italy
Feb 01, 2016 8:10 AM
Replying to Francesco Lertora
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100% agree. Humility is also the capability to fairly understand what is happening around you: somebody with a smarter idea, some very bad (or very good) project decision you took. When it is time to 'speak-up' or when it is better to listen to better understand what is going on...I think it is not by chance that between the brightest mind, artist, engineers etc...I had the luck to know, most of them were amazingly humble
Thanks Francesco, I experienced the same and learnt an important lesson. we can learn by anybody
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fosco frongia Senior project manager| ENTE PATRIMONIALE CHIESA GESU' CRISTO SUG Fino Mornasco, Como, Italy
Feb 01, 2016 8:53 AM
Replying to J Walker
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I agree that Humility is an important characteristic in a leader. I believe it allows him/her to complete a full 360 degree look at a process/problem. The focus is on the issue/task not the leader or the people.. Those around the leader can feel that and it allows them space to step up and grow.. If you haven't already, you may want to read the book "Good to Great" by Jim Collins, it has some data around successful leaders and how humility plays a part..
Thanks J Walker, We must avoid personalism in any case. thanks for the suggestion: you are not the first one suggested to me this important book.
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Bala S Duvvuri Project Manager| Shell Bangalore, Karnataka, India
Feb 01, 2016 5:38 PM
Replying to fosco frongia
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thanks Bala for your comment. Elaborating your last consideration we can affirm that Humility helps to "turn on" a synergistic process on behalf of the project.
Do you agree with this my affirmation?
I am with you on this Fosco.
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1 reply by fosco frongia
Feb 02, 2016 5:43 PM
fosco frongia
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many thanks Bala
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Rami Kaibni
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Senior Projects Manager | Field & Marten Associates New Westminster, British Columbia, Canada
Feb 01, 2016 5:52 PM
Replying to fosco frongia
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Thanks Rami for your comment. your comment point out about an important theme: in the communication the attitude through we transmit the message... is a part of the message!
This is true, it is always about the pitch, tone, body language so usually when you are arrogant while talking to people, they might understand 40% of what you said because 60% of their mind is occupied thinking how much they do not like the attitude.
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Feb 02, 2016 5:45 PM
fosco frongia
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good example. Thanks
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Aejaz Shaikh PM I| Alyx Technologies India Pvt Ltd Pune, Maharshatra, India
Humility is concerned with what is right. With humility a PM can let the team imbibe on a culture of cohesiveness and team first. This is nothing but a great exhibition by the PM of a Team Building Activity thereby increasing the probability of executing a successful project.
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Feb 02, 2016 5:47 PM
fosco frongia
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thanks Aejaz, good example and i agree with it
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fosco frongia Senior project manager| ENTE PATRIMONIALE CHIESA GESU' CRISTO SUG Fino Mornasco, Como, Italy
Feb 01, 2016 8:50 PM
Replying to Bala S Duvvuri
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I am with you on this Fosco.
many thanks Bala
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fosco frongia Senior project manager| ENTE PATRIMONIALE CHIESA GESU' CRISTO SUG Fino Mornasco, Como, Italy
Feb 02, 2016 2:25 AM
Replying to Rami Kaibni
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This is true, it is always about the pitch, tone, body language so usually when you are arrogant while talking to people, they might understand 40% of what you said because 60% of their mind is occupied thinking how much they do not like the attitude.
good example. Thanks
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