Are You a Chronic Canceler?

Lonnie Pacelli is an Accenture/Microsoft veteran with four decades of learnings under his belt. He frequently writes and speaks on leadership, project management, work/life balance, and disability inclusion. Reach him at [email protected] and see more at ProjectManagementAdvisor.com.

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Years back, I worked on a large, high-visibility program. My direct boss was generally well respected by senior leadership for his client management abilities and how well he communicated upward. He scheduled a weekly two-hour staff meeting with his direct reports.

Most times, my peers and I would sit in the meeting waiting for our boss to show up, with him either coming in more than an hour late or not at all. There was always some excuse as to why he couldn’t meet. We had a running joke about what time our boss would show. It was frustrating that we seemed to not matter much to him, particularly on such a high-visibility program.

This behavior was in direct contrast to our boss’s boss, the executive in charge of the entire program. If he made time for you to meet with him, he kept it. If you were late or didn’t show, he let you know about it. In the rare event that he did need to cancel, his assistant would contact you with not just a cancellation but alternate times that he was able to meet. He treated both his and others’ time with respect.

The experiences with my direct and skip-level bosses left a very significant impression on me. Both worked on the same program, yet the one who had the greater span of control also had a much better command of his calendar and demonstrated more respect for others than my direct boss did. Seeing how the …

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