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If You Can’t Lead Yourself, Nobody Will Follow You

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The way you manage your life today is already shaping the leader you want to become tomorrow.

It's easy to think that leadership comes with a job title. A promotion. A bigger office. But real leadership starts much earlier, and much closer to home.

It starts with how you manage yourself.

For me, management tools have always been more than "work stuff." They help with projects, sure. But they are just as useful for managing time, routines, tasks, even life decisions. The same methods we use at work can (and should) be used to manage our personal lives.

And managing your life with care, treating yourself as your own best project, is something to be proud of.

Maybe you have this picture in your mind — being a respected leader, someone others admire and want to follow. But stop and ask yourself something uncomfortable:

Would you follow yourself today?

Be honest. Are your current habits the habits of someone you would respect? Are you showing dedication to your own goals? Or are you just hoping the future will somehow fix what you are not fixing now?

Because it won't. The future rewards those who act today.

Even if you are far from your big dream, you should already behave like the person you want to become. Leadership is not a switch that turns on with a title. It's built through small daily choices. It shows up in your attitude long before it shows up in your career.

Now imagine you do get that manager title. Your email signature says "Manager." Great. But what if your time is wasted, your life is disorganized, your finances are a mess, and your goals are just blurry ideas?

Would anyone take you seriously?

Leadership is not a label. People follow those who are in control of themselves. If your life is out of control, your credibility suffers. And without credibility, there is no leadership. No respect. No followers.

That is why managing your own life matters so much. Your routines. Your habits. Your mindset. These are not small things. They are the foundation of how others will see you.

Of course, you won’t get a bonus for this work. No salary increase. No award at the end of the year. But life has its own way of rewarding those who take themselves seriously. Small rewards at first. Bigger ones later. But they come.

Picture yourself at 50. Do you want to be seen as someone wise, experienced, respected? That image does not magically appear. You build it, little by little, with your actions today.

Even if your results are still small, it doesn’t matter. Attitude is not measured in numbers. It shows in how you act, how you carry yourself, how you respect your own time and goals.

So, now that you know this, it’s your move.

The text ends here. But your actions start now.

Posted on: March 27, 2018 10:20 AM | Permalink

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Rami Kaibni
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Senior Projects Manager | Field & Marten Associates New Westminster, British Columbia, Canada
You bring some good points William

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Sante Delle-Vergini, PhD Senior Project Manager| Infosys Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
It certainty does William. We start to exhibit management and leadership capabilities when we are children.

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Sergio Luis Conte Helping to create solutions for everyone| Worldwide based Organizations Buenos Aires, Argentina
Each people in this world performs project management from the time they wake up to the time they go to bed. On the other side, trying to add something, I encourage people to read about why and how the CMU SEI Personal Software Process was created by Wats Humphrey (the same that created CMM models). People will surprise. it is in line with you stated in this article.

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David Fedorchak IT Specialist| Federal Government Va, United States
Interesting topic. I've spent a lot of time 'managing' my personal life but never looked at it as yet another project management domain / practice. It makes sense. Thanks for providing this.

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Alok Priyadarshi Project Manager| Tata Consulting Engineers Limited Jamshedpur, Jharkhand, India
Great, Thanks. be a driver of your life to reach the the your destiny.

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Najam Mumtaz Retired Lahore, Punjab, Pakistan
Project management provides a structured framework for getting everyday projects faced in our daily life done efficiently. Being organized and task-oriented can help keep you be efficient and productive,

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Seshadri KasturiRangan Technical Project Manager| ICON plc Chennai, Tamilnadu, India
I really love this article. Life is always considered one of the complex projects (at least for many, like me), which if managed successfully, can take you places that you've never imagined. This is also a good lesson to remember the phrase 'never give up' and keep trying:)

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Anish Abraham Privacy Program Manager| University of Washington Auburn, Wa, United States
Informative article, William and thanks for sharing.

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Michael Delaney Partner| Delaney Management LLC West Chester, Pa, United States
very nice point. Your career is part of your life and you can not be two different people. You need to have your whole life in order to be the most effective.

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Giovana DAlascio Senior Project Manager| ArezzoCo Corpus Christi, United States
Well done William! Great text! Great point fo view!! ;)

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Luis Branco CEO| Business Insight, Consultores de Gestão, Ldª Carcavelos, Lisboa, Portugal
Dear William
Interesting your perspective on the topic: "Management starts with our personal lives"

Thanks for sharing

Important point to remember:
"Organize your life and manage it. Be a leader of yourself and make things around you not out of control."

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