Why “Too Young” Is the Weakest Excuse You Can Make
From the The Young Project Manager Blog
by William Meller
Does your age really define what you can or cannot do?
Some people seem to think so. They believe being “too young” means they are not ready yet. That they should wait. Wait to dream big. Wait to take risks. Wait to start building something meaningful.
If you believe this, let me ask: who told you that? And why do you believe them?
I got my first job when I was 14. Not because I had to. Not because life forced me. I wasn’t desperate for money. I wasn’t even sure how I’d use my salary. I just wanted to start. Simple as that. I wanted to begin my professional journey, and I didn’t care what people thought about my age.
I’m not saying everyone should do the same. Starting early is not the point here. The point is: I didn’t let my age decide for me.
Elaine Mead once wrote about how it’s never too early to talk about careers with children. The sooner you start these conversations, the sooner kids can build their own ideas, ask better questions, and explore what excites them. Dreams need space to grow. The big ones even more so.
And when it’s time to make serious academic or career decisions, those early reflections make all the difference.
So why do so many people still think they have to wait? Waiting for the “right” age. Waiting for permission. Waiting for some invisible sign that now, finally, they are old enough.
Enough of this nonsense. The right time is when you decide it is.
You own your future. Not your parents. Not your school. Not your boss. Just you. I know this might be hard to accept. But if you keep ignoring it, you’ll fall behind. Time won’t wait for you.
Katie Burke shared 15 great career tips for people in their early twenties. But let me tell you, those tips are not about age. They’re about mindset. They apply to you even if you’re younger. I don’t care about the number. The principles are universal.
Here are some of them, simple and true:
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Find companies that match your dreams.
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Learn to accept feedback, especially the negative ones.
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Surround yourself with people who challenge you.
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Never stop learning.
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Know your weaknesses and grow past them.
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Let your results speak louder than your words.
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Learn to sell — ideas, projects, yourself.
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Focus on results, not just recognition.
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Take control of your career. Don’t wait for a manager to guide you.
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Set clear goals and chase them daily.
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Embrace challenges.
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Use your social skills well.
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Be ready for things to go wrong. Keep going anyway.
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Don’t expect quick rewards. Be patient, but relentless.
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Try new things, even the “crazy” ones.
If you think your age is stopping you, you’re giving it power it doesn’t have. Stop doing that.
You can’t expect to change the world if you don’t start by changing yourself. You are not “too young” to build your career, your skills, your dreams.
Your career has one owner.
That owner is you.
Posted on: April 25, 2018 02:43 PM |
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Thanks for sharing and definitely encouraging tips for any age group as its never too late to start
Rami Kaibni
Community Champion
Senior Projects Manager | Field & Marten Associates
New Westminster, British Columbia, Canada
Good Points.
Age is just a number. Your Age = Your Experience. Some people are young age wise but elders experiemce wise and that is what matters.
A young starter can afford to experiment with the first few job roles as it won't really shape their career. Basically do what you love, if you can, and it will be fine.
Kevin Drake
Business Manager Electrical Engineering Services | SGS Australia
Perth, Western Australia, Australia
Very good points. It is very encouraging.
The problem with deciding too early is that most people do not have a full view of the options they choose. What these options entail, what the consequences are, what the opportunity cost is.
They would, at this point, close all other avenues and - if things don't work out - they are stuck plodding on a path they don't want to tread or they have to start from zero on another path.
Sante's viewpoint on experimentation is extremely relevant in this context. And if we take into account the rapid changes in the workplace. Someone who's built a generalist foundation will find it easier to adapt than someone who has tried to specialise from a very young age.
Tamer Zeyad Sadiq
Assistant Cost Manager| Turner & Townsend
Riyadh, Ar Riyad, Saudi Arabia
William Meller
IT Project, Program & Portfolio Manager| Polestar
Gothenburg, Sweden
I understand and agree with you point, Karan, that is very important a generalist vision to have a lot of opportunities and knowledge for a better decision when it comes.
Very good article, thanks
Anish Abraham
Privacy Program Manager| University of Washington
Auburn, Wa, United States
Good points, William and thanks for sharing.
Pier Luigi Calabria
Project Manager| INFORM Institut für Operations Research und Management GmbH, Aachen, Germany
Aachen, Germany
1, 2 and 4 are definitely the top ones!!
(said by an old man)
Vincent Guerard
Coach - Trainer - Speaker - Advisor| Freelance
Mont-Royal, Quebec, Canada
Nice list there, most would apply regardless of age!
As a recent graduate who fell in love with PM after taking an undergraduate course, this article helped instill some confidence in myself. However, my main problem is not in thinking I am too young, it's in getting someone or a company to believe in me the way I believe in myself. Job applications go unanswered when you have little experience even though I'm only applying to Assistant PM positions and internships in NYC. Nevertheless, thanks for sharing!
Luis Branco
CEO| Business Insight, Consultores de Gestão, Ldª
Carcavelos, Lisboa, Portugal
Dear William
Interesting your perspective on the topic: "Don't worry, you are not too young"
Thanks for sharing
Important point to remember:
"Your career has an owner. One owner. Just you!"
Rajendra Medepalle
Program Manager| TATA Consultancy Services Ltd.
Malvern, PA, United States
Excellent points. Thanks William for sharing.
Stephen Robin
Project Analyst Trainee| Ministry of Works and Transport
Arima, Ari, Trinidad and Tobago
As a 22-year-old, this article hit home for me. Number 2, 4, 6, 9, 10, and 14 are extremely vital in important.
Eliyahu Mirlis
Eliyahu Mirlis| RegalCare Management Group
Edison, Nj, United States
Great article. Thanks for sharing.
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