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Why “Too Young” Is the Weakest Excuse You Can Make

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Does your age really define what you can or cannot do?

Some people seem to think so. They believe being “too young” means they are not ready yet. That they should wait. Wait to dream big. Wait to take risks. Wait to start building something meaningful.

If you believe this, let me ask: who told you that? And why do you believe them?

I got my first job when I was 14. Not because I had to. Not because life forced me. I wasn’t desperate for money. I wasn’t even sure how I’d use my salary. I just wanted to start. Simple as that. I wanted to begin my professional journey, and I didn’t care what people thought about my age.

I’m not saying everyone should do the same. Starting early is not the point here. The point is: I didn’t let my age decide for me.

Elaine Mead once wrote about how it’s never too early to talk about careers with children. The sooner you start these conversations, the sooner kids can build their own ideas, ask better questions, and explore what excites them. Dreams need space to grow. The big ones even more so.

And when it’s time to make serious academic or career decisions, those early reflections make all the difference.

So why do so many people still think they have to wait? Waiting for the “right” age. Waiting for permission. Waiting for some invisible sign that now, finally, they are old enough.

Enough of this nonsense. The right time is when you decide it is.

You own your future. Not your parents. Not your school. Not your boss. Just you. I know this might be hard to accept. But if you keep ignoring it, you’ll fall behind. Time won’t wait for you.

Katie Burke shared 15 great career tips for people in their early twenties. But let me tell you, those tips are not about age. They’re about mindset. They apply to you even if you’re younger. I don’t care about the number. The principles are universal.

Here are some of them, simple and true:

  • Find companies that match your dreams.

  • Learn to accept feedback, especially the negative ones.

  • Surround yourself with people who challenge you.

  • Never stop learning.

  • Know your weaknesses and grow past them.

  • Let your results speak louder than your words.

  • Learn to sell — ideas, projects, yourself.

  • Focus on results, not just recognition.

  • Take control of your career. Don’t wait for a manager to guide you.

  • Set clear goals and chase them daily.

  • Embrace challenges.

  • Use your social skills well.

  • Be ready for things to go wrong. Keep going anyway.

  • Don’t expect quick rewards. Be patient, but relentless.

  • Try new things, even the “crazy” ones.

If you think your age is stopping you, you’re giving it power it doesn’t have. Stop doing that.

You can’t expect to change the world if you don’t start by changing yourself. You are not “too young” to build your career, your skills, your dreams.

Your career has one owner.

That owner is you.

Posted on: April 25, 2018 02:43 PM | Permalink

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Cibin Thomas Reston, Va, United States
Thanks for sharing and definitely encouraging tips for any age group as its never too late to start

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Rami Kaibni
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Senior Projects Manager | Field & Marten Associates New Westminster, British Columbia, Canada
Good Points.

Age is just a number. Your Age = Your Experience. Some people are young age wise but elders experiemce wise and that is what matters.

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Sante Delle-Vergini, PhD Senior Project Manager| Infosys Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
A young starter can afford to experiment with the first few job roles as it won't really shape their career. Basically do what you love, if you can, and it will be fine.

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Kevin Drake Business Manager Electrical Engineering Services | SGS Australia Perth, Western Australia, Australia
Very good points. It is very encouraging.

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Karan Shah Bangalore, Karnataka, India
The problem with deciding too early is that most people do not have a full view of the options they choose. What these options entail, what the consequences are, what the opportunity cost is.

They would, at this point, close all other avenues and - if things don't work out - they are stuck plodding on a path they don't want to tread or they have to start from zero on another path.

Sante's viewpoint on experimentation is extremely relevant in this context. And if we take into account the rapid changes in the workplace. Someone who's built a generalist foundation will find it easier to adapt than someone who has tried to specialise from a very young age.

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Tamer Zeyad Sadiq Assistant Cost Manager| Turner & Townsend Riyadh, Ar Riyad, Saudi Arabia
Beautiful articale!!!

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William Meller IT Project, Program & Portfolio Manager| Polestar Gothenburg, Sweden
I understand and agree with you point, Karan, that is very important a generalist vision to have a lot of opportunities and knowledge for a better decision when it comes.

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Eduin Fernando Valdes Alvarado Project Manager| F y F Fabricamos Futuro Villavicencio, Meta, Colombia
Very good article, thanks

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Anish Abraham Privacy Program Manager| University of Washington Auburn, Wa, United States
Good points, William and thanks for sharing.

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Pier Luigi Calabria Project Manager| INFORM Institut für Operations Research und Management GmbH, Aachen, Germany Aachen, Germany
1, 2 and 4 are definitely the top ones!!
(said by an old man)

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Vincent Guerard Coach - Trainer - Speaker - Advisor| Freelance Mont-Royal, Quebec, Canada
Nice list there, most would apply regardless of age!

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Harold Barreto Ny, United States
As a recent graduate who fell in love with PM after taking an undergraduate course, this article helped instill some confidence in myself. However, my main problem is not in thinking I am too young, it's in getting someone or a company to believe in me the way I believe in myself. Job applications go unanswered when you have little experience even though I'm only applying to Assistant PM positions and internships in NYC. Nevertheless, thanks for sharing!

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Manouchehr Madani Civi Senior Healthcare Project Manager Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Thanks for sharing

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Luis Branco CEO| Business Insight, Consultores de Gestão, Ldª Carcavelos, Lisboa, Portugal
Dear William
Interesting your perspective on the topic: "Don't worry, you are not too young"

Thanks for sharing

Important point to remember:
"Your career has an owner. One owner. Just you!"

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Rajendra Medepalle Program Manager| TATA Consultancy Services Ltd. Malvern, PA, United States
Excellent points. Thanks William for sharing.

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Stephen Robin Project Analyst Trainee| Ministry of Works and Transport Arima, Ari, Trinidad and Tobago
As a 22-year-old, this article hit home for me. Number 2, 4, 6, 9, 10, and 14 are extremely vital in important.

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Eliyahu Mirlis Eliyahu Mirlis| RegalCare Management Group Edison, Nj, United States
Great article. Thanks for sharing.

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