Ugh! Change is so hard!
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by LORI WILSON
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Change is hard but so important for success. As project managers we are constant leaders for change for teams and companies around the globe. Project management in just the very name describes we are making change happen for others - and these days rapid change is expected. With rapid change comes complexity and stress and often leads to pulling others through change vs. having them create change beside us. Resistance to change means we deal with fear, ambiguity and frustration or even anger. Some companies support us with change management practices, but many do not. So, what are some things that can help us successfully lead change? Here are 5 things I do:
- Ask open ended questions and spin positive when possible. When I am dealing with someone resistant to a project, I like to ask them questions like….. “I get the impression you do not believe this project will be successful. If I asked you to rank how successful you believe this project will be with 1 being a total failure and 10 being total project success…..where would you rank it?” Perhaps they answer with a 3. At that point, I would ask them why didn’t you rate it a 2? This is a subtle way to get the person to “fight” for the project and subtly spins the conversation to thinking positively. Doing this helps others begin to see things in a more accepting way.
- Beef up the communication – Share as much info as possible to the right people in the right way and do it OFTEN! I try to incorporate fun ways to share communication – for example, sharing a sports quote of the day with the CFO who is a huge sports fan. He loves getting my communication update e-mails and looks forward to the sports quotes. This is an easy way to create some positive energy!
- Power up your people skills – Encourage, influence and support as much as possible. Your efforts will be well spent leading and inspiring teams through the transformation! Find ways to make it fun. For a local hospital, I make homemade truffles – we call them “go-live pills” for IT implementations at the hospital. Once when sharing a new project was coming a pharmacist asked me if I was going to make go live pills, I said yes, and he responded – count me in!
- Listen, listen, listen. Listen to all the reasons why your team has concerns about the change. You can avoid challenges and help them successfully move through the stages of change (pre-contemplation, contemplation, preparation, action and maintenance) when they believe their voice is heard. This is very important. I like to use a TELL ME WHY board and ask everyone to contribute why they are experiencing any resistance to change. This board is displayed during meetings and we can add to it any time. Once fears get placed on the board, it seems to diminish the concerns a bit.
- Be a cheerleader! Celebrate all the achievements, send thank-you’s, share your appreciation for the time and skills of others. Keep cheering along the marathon – it encourages the people running the race!
Please share some ideas below around how YOU successfully lead change. Your input will he
Posted on: January 02, 2020 02:07 PM |
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Rami Kaibni
Community Champion
Senior Projects Manager | Field & Marten Associates
New Westminster, British Columbia, Canada
Great strategy Lori. You’re an amazing person and I truly admire you and your soft skills - Happy New Year !
Good set of tips, Lori! I'd add one more - make sure you can answer the WIIFM question because even if they don't ask it, they will be thinking it!
Kiron
Drew Craig
Sr. Agile & Product Coach| Vanguard
Philadelphia, Pa, United States
Great, Lori! Now, first question is where were those truffles in Philadelphia :)
I was just speaking with my wife on something around work and the teams I'm coaching. I used the same term of cheerleader as a way to describe some of the actions I take to help the team with their efforts.
Also, agree with Kiron's addition. In developing new training content recently one of the discussion points was ensuring attendees understood why they were there - instead of assuming everyone 'just knew'.
Drew Craig
Sr. Agile & Product Coach| Vanguard
Philadelphia, Pa, United States
Great tips Lori, thank you for sharing. Often we are attached to some things or people or a process and not open to changes, so may be you can add one more thing to your list based on this quote?
Open to Everything, Attach to Nothing!
Eduard Hernandez
Community Champion
Product Operations Program Manager
Barcelona, Cataluña, Spain
Good tips, Lori. Another version of tip #1 could be using the "what if..." technique. What if we do not change / modify / process xyz / business strategy abc / etc?
Luis Branco
CEO| Business Insight, Consultores de Gestão, Ldª
Carcavelos, Lisboa, Portugal
Dear Lori
Interesting perspective on the topic
Thanks for sharing
Good tips for managing the change process
The five stages of the change process - denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance - vary from person to person and as such a different period of time.
Time must be allowed for people to keep up with change
Luis Branco
CEO| Business Insight, Consultores de Gestão, Ldª
Carcavelos, Lisboa, Portugal
I think it is crucial for people to understand the advantage (s) of change (s)
Grant Hamel
Mr RTE Agile Passionate| The Coventry Building Society
Banbury, Oxfordshire, United Kingdom
Most of us are considerate of the needs of others and "treat others as we would be treated" or "treat others as they would like to be treated", yet the biggest factor around change for me is this:
"I can accept it and adopt only when I understand it"
And most people are the same, change is easy when incrementally applied and done so with inclusion and compassion, it is almost impossible when forced and driven against tight timelines. As Lori points out when it is thoughtfully applied, structurally processed and congruently communicated, then it has the highest chance of success. We need to consider that often the environment leads to change fatigue and sometimes it helps to create a new environment especially one that builds trust. My psychologist shared as a dealt with challenges around my thirteen year old that you either need to build relationship or hold the boundaries rigidly, and I found that building relationship helped to not need boundaries that were that tight. Thank you Lori for this article and reminding us how to build those relationships.
Dear Lori,
Great documented. Point no. 4 is very crucial.
Thanks,
Rajon
Priya Patra
Delivery Director| Capgemini India Technology Services Ltd
Mumbai, India
Listen, listen, listen is very critical and hard to follow :(
LORI WILSON
RETIRED - Technical Project Manager| RETIRED - LifePoint Health
Clarkston, Wa, United States
Thank you all for the supportive comments. We all face change, don't we - and that change just seems to come at us harder each year. Thank you for being willing to review this blog and share your thoughts. It means a lot to me.
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