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***Colleagues: I'm experimenting with a new blogging format to more effectively give you insightful | concise | direct nuggets. I'm calling it the BTL (Building Thriving Leaders) BriefBlog. Be honest with me; would love to know what you think!

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Messenger or Manager: A BTL BriefBlog Episode

The Scenario: The project manager is providing a weekly status report to the project sponsor

  • PM: The vendor told me yesterday they will miss their delivery date by a month.
  • Sponsor: Just a month ago I gave you the money you asked for to get the project done. What's the issue?
  • PM: The vendor is telling me it's more complex than they thought. They can't deliver.
  • Sponsor: What??? I gave you what you asked for and now you're telling me they can't get it done?
  • PM: That's what they're telling me.
  • Sponsor: What are you doing about it?
  • PM: Well, we have a weekly status meeting and will discuss again next week.
  • Sponsor: Have you escalated to their management?
  • PM: No.
  • Sponsor: So you're telling me that we just have to accept it?
  • PM: Well, I can try talking to them again.
  • Sponsor: Get them on a call, and include me.
  • PM: Ok.
  • Sponsor (thinking to himself about the PM): Delivers bad news, no plan to address, I thought he was a PM; he's just a messenger.

The Message: It's good to provide early warning to potential issues, but it’s bad when you don’t provide the next steps you're taking or what help you need. This labels you as a messenger rather than the manager you’re expected to be.

The Consequence: Issues without next actions or asks gives the impression you're not taking ownership of the issue and you're expecting someone else to manage through it.

The Take-Away: Don't be an issue messenger. Define the issue, articulate what next steps are, and be clear on what and when you expect others to do to help squash the issue.


Posted on: March 08, 2022 11:58 AM | Permalink

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Luis Branco CEO| Business Insight, Consultores de Gestão, Ldª Carcavelos, Lisboa, Portugal
Dear Lonnie
The topic that you brought to our reflection and debate today is very interesting.

Thank you for this tab and for your opinions

I've always heard it said, "Don't just bring me problems. Bring me solutions too."

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Stéphane Parent Self Employed / Semi-retired| Leader Maker Prince Edward Island, Canada
I like the new format, Lonnie. It's easy to walk-through the case then review your analysis.

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Denathayalan Ramasamy Chief Technology Officer| Atal Incubation Centre -CIIC Chennai, Tamilnadu, India
Usual encounter which leader face during coaching of any new managers.

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Kwiyuh Michael Wepngong
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Financial Management Specialist | US Peace Corps Yaounde, Centre, Cameroon
Thanks Lonnie,
wow... this hits hard

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Warren Simon Program Manager| DoD Baltimore, Md, United States
Good stuff! And you use an unfortunately very relevant and common conversation as an example.

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Orla Ryan Dublin, Ireland
We've all been there! It is hard to find the right words sometimes, especially when you have to deliver such a message.

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Troy Walker Director| VW International Centreville, Va, United States
Thank you for the concise format. The scenario gets straight to the point and is a good reminder of the importance of thinking the issue through in order to identify next steps.

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Michael Coleman Memphis, Tn, United States
Thanks Lonnie. I like the new format.

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Thomas Hackett Senior Project Manager Burke, Va, United States
A manager once told me to Bring him Solutions - not Problems.

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