Categories: PMO Leadership
| Shame (noun) / a painful emotion resulting from an awareness of inadequacy. |
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How many of you have heard the saying, “Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.”..? Usually, this saying is offered up to remind us not to be fooled by tricksters, those folks that offer you something that sounds too good to be true, and almost always is. Everyone gets taken for a ride every now and then, but for heaven’s sakes, don’t be taken for a ride the second time around. So what does this have to do with the project management or the PMO? Well, I am getting there, but I need you to stay with me on this. You see, the first I ever heard, or remember hearing, the expression, “Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me” was at a process improvement class over twenty years ago and it stayed with me ever since. The instructor, a process improvement expert, was making the point that often times in an organization when we experience a process defect, the first thing that we do is bitch about it in the break room, and to whoever will listen, over and over and over. And often, we find out that someone else experienced that same difficulty earlier and was similarly frustrated. But no one did anything constructively about it. So, time after time, one after another would experience the same, repeated error whether it was a workflow defect, a tooling defect, a skills defect, a communication defect, or an input, output, or process defect. Now, think about all of the various problems, issues, observations and/or lessons learned feedback we, as project managers and PMO managers, get to see everyday in the PMO. How many of these do we just allow to reoccur and how many of these do we take note of and fix? And why is it that our natural tendency is to just grin and bear it, to put up with it? Wouldn't it be great to adopt a new mantra for the PMO regarding these little execution difficulties and process defects, and that is: “Have a process defect once, shame on our process; have the same defect again, shame on us.” |




