Are Project Managers too soft?

 

Incredible it may be, but the data is beginning to emerge that this could indeed be the case. The usual caveat about generalisations aside, this is what my recent research is starting to reveal. And, you don’t have to be a project manager to learn from these results.

Based on a group of 195 project managers I have discovered, somewhat to my surprise, that they are more likely to be high in Tact and Diplomacy and low in Determination, than the general (professional) working population. To be honest, I had expected the opposite.

These people all completed my Influence Profile that measures preferred behaviours when working with others. This is not looking at their actual behaviour, but rather the way they would most like to behave (which is reality is the default behaviour they use most of the time).

Within this psychometric, four dimensions of behaviour are analysed andthen ranked (Sociability and Networking, Determination, Emotional Control and Tact and Diplomacy). The result is a short report that describes how the individual is likely to be viewed by their colleagues.

In certain situations, the above is absolutely perfect. In others, it will leave the project manager flailing and struggling to get things done.

What is important here is not how project managers prefer to behave, but how they need to behave to deliver their objectives. If the difference between preference and need is too great, it is likely that the project manager will suffer stress and strain because of the stretch from their comfort zone. Consequently, they’ll probably revert to type.

With awareness and practice, adapting these behaviours becomes easy, and fun.

To turn this towards a practical outcome, it is important to:

1. Understand how you prefer to behave, your default.
2. Consider, in your situation, working with your stakeholders, how you need to behave.
3. Finally, look at simple ways that you can begin to adjust your behaviour to become more effective at working with and influencing your stakeholders.

The bottom line is that the correct style is the one that maximises the potential to get the outcome you want.

If you'd like to take the profile, invite me to connect and let me know you'd like to complete it and I'll give you the link.