Chronic Complainer or Cursed Cassandra?
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Sounds good, right? But what should we do when one person’s raising of concerns becomes chronic? Left unchecked, such behavior could alienate the individual from the rest of the team as others within the team might not want to have someone bringing them down. If allowed to fester, the individual’s contributions will be criticized or rejected based on how they are perceived by others in the team. Even worse, their regular ranting could become contagious and infect other team members which will bring down the team’s overall morale and productivity. It would be tempting to jump in and confront the team member, but before directly intervening, seek first to better understand what is going on. Consider their most recent set of complaints and ask yourself the following questions.
Once you have gathered this information, look at it objectively, and if you find yourself unable to do so, invite a trusted peer, in confidence, to review the evidence and provide their opinion. Is your team member a chronic complainer or are they a cursed Cassandra? There are many examples of those unfortunate few who tried to make the many sit up and pay attention only to be persecuted for their efforts and do YOU want to be on the wrong side of history? Intervene too soon and you will send the message to the individual and the rest of the team that you can’t handle the truth. The next time they feel concerned about something, they will stay silent as they no longer feel safe. But once you are convinced that intervention is needed, don’t delay. Manfred F. R. Kets de Vries wrote an article for HBR providing guidance on how to do so once you know it is warranted. Work with a diverse group of people long enough and someone is guaranteed to complain. This is natural human behavior and we want to encourage the healthy expression of concerns, especially if addressing these concerns directly could help to create a better outcome for our customers, our company or society in general. |
Seven Sins of Reviews
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Whether your team sets a regular cadence for external product reviews or they are conducted on a just-in-time basis, it is important to get actionable feedback. But conducting a review is not just a matter of bringing people together. While there are probably more than just these ways of messing up reviews, here are seven which I’ve witnessed.
Well-run reviews are a key ingredient of building the right product for our customers, so avoiding these seven sins will go a long way to getting real value out of these critical events. |
Psychological safety breeds team resilience
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In the article, the author introduces the concept of collective self-healing at the team level drawing upon observations of how ant and other social insect colonies respond to major upheavals. She identifies three characteristics which enable teams to become more resilient:
The author closes with three questions which leadership teams should ask themselves to determine whether they have the right system in place (e.g. values, policies & processes, roles and measures) to support the realization of these team attributes. But one prerequisite which is not specifically referenced in the article is psychological safety. When team members don’t feel safe, they will prioritize their own safety over that of the team. They will be less willing to take on unfamiliar responsibilities due to the fear of blowback if they fail. Even if they are the best person to lead the team in a given situation they will be less likely to do so for the same reasons or because they are worried about how others in the team will perceive or treat them. And they will avoid asking for help in a proactive manner since they won’t want to appear vulnerable within the team. Just as it is for creating high-performing teams, psychological safety is an underpinning for creating resilient teams which are able to handle the vicissitudes of delivering during turbulent times. So the number one question which leaders should be asking themselves is “Have we cultivated sufficient safety within our teams?“ |
A hero culture might be a sign of low psychological safety
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I wrote an article a few years ago about the issues with an organizational hero culture including:
Fear of failure or ridicule isn’t a concern for those lucky few who are anointed as heroes. When they fail, the goodwill they have built up based on their past heroics is usually more than enough to protect their social status. You might think that this would encourage their followers to also take calculated risks. But if an “average Joe” tries something and it fails, would they receive the same support or benefit of doubt as a hero? If not, the hero culture might cause other staff to feel less safe to experiment. A hero might also inspire their followers to blindly trust them. While this trust might be needed in exceptional crises, it might also cause others to be less likely to confront the heroes if they witness them doing something wrong. Combine that reluctance with the backlash that whistleblowers could receive from other followers for challenging their heroes and it increases the likelihood that a hero could get away with bad behavior. A hero’s (apparent) lack of vulnerability is also a cause for concern. If they are unwilling to say when they don’t know or are afraid of something, those who look up to them may be tempted to behave in the same manner. And that can cause issues to arise which wouldn’t have if assumptions and knowledge gaps had been surfaced in a more open, timely manner. Finally, a hero culture can be divisive as it naturally generates an “us and them” state. Dr. Timothy R. Clark identifies Inclusion Safety as the foundation of his four stage model on psychological safety as without inclusiveness you can’t unleash the power of diversity. It is hard to be fully inclusive when a subset of the organization is placed on a pedestal. Leaders are expected to be force multipliers. If a hero can help others to behave and be treated like they are, that’s wonderful. But that won’t happen by itself. “What if you could have that power… now? In every generation, one Slayer is born… because a bunch of men who died thousands of years ago made up that rule. They were powerful men. This woman is more powerful than all of them combined. So I say we change the rule. I say my power… should be our power.” – Buffy the Vampire Slayer |
The allure of #NoEstimates
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A project manager asked me a question which I’ve frequently been posed over my career. How should I deal with a stakeholder who, when I provide a rough order of magnitude ranged estimate early in the life of a project, insists on holding me accountable to the lower end of that range later on even when sufficient evidence has emerged to contradict that value? The question clearly states that a range of values was provided and no commitment was made. And yet, the behavior of the stakeholder was the same as if a single point, firm fixed estimate had been given. Anchoring and confirmation biases can partially explain why this happens, but this provides little assistance to a project manager who is asked to provide an estimate at the beginning of a project. But even if more than 50% of the project scope has been delivered, we might still be unable to provide an accurate estimate. We learn that a simple way of calculating Estimate At Completion for a project is to base it on past performance but how often is that the case in reality? To provide an accurate forecast, we would need a delivery process which is in control, and yet, most of the time we may have limited influence over factors which could cause a predictive model to break down. If we don’t have reliable availability of people, regardless of which delivery approach we use, we won’t be able to predict when we will be finished until all scope has been delivered. Metrics such as velocity, throughput or average work item age are as helpful as a magic eight ball under such conditions. Ensuring that everyone is available when needed is not impossible, but it is difficult to achieve when delivery commitments are made without taking an organization’s ability to deliver into consideration. But even with dedicated staffing, unless the level of uncertainty associated with the remaining work is less than or equal to what the team has experienced to date, past history won’t be indicative of future performance. Risk management helps by encouraging a team to address high severity threats as early as possible, but that assumes that they are able to identify key threats. The more complex a project, the greater the difficulty in doing so. All it takes is the realization of one particularly nasty unknown-unknown to invalidate a high confidence estimate. Contingency and management reserves provide a degree of shock absorption but on extremely complex projects, the tail of the poor outcomes is long indeed. A container ship got stuck sideways in the Suez Canal this Tuesday. It is not the first time such a shipping issue has occurred yet four days later no one is able to provide an accurate estimate as to how quickly the the canal will be unblocked. If you are managing a project which is unlike any other, why would you expect to be able to do any better at forecasting when you will be done? #NoEstimates might not be acceptable to many stakeholders, but it might be the most responsible answer in some circumstances. |






Having the courage to speak up within a team without fear of social repercussion is a symptom of a higher level of psychological safety. Depending on the context of the complaint it might, in fact, be evidence of Challenger Safety which is the top level of
Whether your team follows a specific framework or has taken a mix-and-match approach with its practices, a tenet of agile is the use of short feedback loops to support inspection and adaptation.
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