Only YOU Can Do This
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We all tackle ethical dilemmas. Wrong decisions can break careers. Which are the key challenges faced? What are some likely solutions? Where can we find effective tools? Who can apply these and why? Dry, theoretical discussions don't help. Join us for lively, light conversations to learn, share and grow!
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Last summer, back in July 2019, I was attending one of the largest technology users’ conferences in sunny San Diego-California, where the last slide of the keynote opening speech caught my eye and I kept thinking about it until writing this blog.

Jack Dangermond (President and Owner of Esri) Closing note, Esri User Conference plenary session, July 2019, San Diego, California, USA
As a professional project manager, my work is part of something much larger. It is about driving ideas successfully by turning them into reality, using people skills and capabilities in a timely fashion. This is what the new PMI’s PROJECT ECONOMY™ is all about, and this is the future of the profession.
Being part of a larger system means that I am an active stakeholder, engaged in establishing the basis of a sustainable future, with its multiple faces: sustainable development, resilience, sustainable entrepreneurship, corporate social responsibility, etc.
There is no doubt that, with the multilateral processes in place, and levels of support incorporated; it is eminent to always calibrate the relationships with the environment we are living in. It is becoming more imperative to design and implement an inclusive global thriving society to ensure a better future.
Moreover, in this disruptive age, we are living in; where industries, disciplines and professions are constantly changing patterns and evolving competitively, striving to overcome the challenge of increasing the demand generation and getting ready to go to market; establishing the balance between personal life-profession-environment is not just a state of mind, but it is part of something much bigger, and getting it right matters a lot to realize a sustainable future.
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Saying that; and building on top of the fact that we are all already engaged to follow the trend; what could the drivers to realize a sustainable future? How to achieve this balance? What are the needed skills? What is the required level of maturity? Is it only about adopting the latest technologies and/or embark on a digital transformation journey? Is it enough to pursue more certifications in the field of innovation, change management, coaching, etc.?
While those are existential questions, perspectives of answers are different, and may vary from a context to another, from a culture to another, from a discipline to another, the most important common factor is the INDIVIDUALS themselves, with all what they possess in terms of own needs or goals, rights and responsibilities.

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Back to the slide mentioned earlier at the start of this text; after reading many times the requirements of achieving a sustainable future, my attention went to “Compassion, Ethics and Hard Work”, where I found more clarity, and got the appropriate answers. These include:
- Being sensitive and fair;
- Acting with justice and interdependence;
- Dealing with others on an equal dimension basis;
- Being skilled with empathy, patience, wisdom, kindness, perseverance, warmth and resolve;
- Inspiring trust by the way decisions are taken;
- Having energy and commitment; and the list goes on.
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In my opinion, the answers above are what makes us READY for the challenges of realizing a sustainable future.
As a project manager, how do you implement this your professional environment?
How do we meet the standards that we set for ourselves?
Is there any reference, in the project management profession to benchmark the decisions we make?
YES, THERE ARE…. AND Only YOU Can Do This
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PMI’s Code of Ethics and Professional Conduct
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Luis Branco
CEO| Business Insight, Consultores de Gestão, Ldª
Carcavelos, Lisboa, Portugal
Dear Gretta
Interesting your perspective on the topic: "Only you can do this"
Thanks for sharing
Striking point for me: "It is becoming more imperative to design and implement an inclusive global thriving society to ensure a better future."
Of course, I could not fail to mention the 3 questions you ask at the end of this article.
Great article, Gretta!
I like you stressed the importance each INDIVUAL has, as we tend to blame others, the company, or the society.
It's true also that decision-making has the power to insoire trust in others.
Thanks for sharing
Rami Kaibni
Community Champion
Senior Projects Manager | Field & Marten Associates
New Westminster, British Columbia, Canada
Great post Gretta, Cheers !
Alankar Karpe
Project and program management, Speaker and mentor | Wipro
Bangalore, India
We could only meet the standards we set for ourselves by holding ourselves fully committed and responsible. Thanks for sharing this!
Gretta Kelzi
Operations Manager/Ethics Insights Team| Esri Lebanon/PMI
Jdeidet Al Maten, Al Maten, Lebanon
@Luis, thank you for your valuable contribution, and for sensing how much I believe that any change or influence starts with the individual and its so inclusive as a starting point, then it becomes generalized and spread to the surrounding environment (micro to macro approach).
Gretta Kelzi
Operations Manager/Ethics Insights Team| Esri Lebanon/PMI
Jdeidet Al Maten, Al Maten, Lebanon
@ Fabio, this is true, great insight! we always tend to blame others, so if we start by embracing the changes in ourselves, we would be in a better place!
Gretta Kelzi
Operations Manager/Ethics Insights Team| Esri Lebanon/PMI
Jdeidet Al Maten, Al Maten, Lebanon
@Rami, thank you for your warm words
Gretta Kelzi
Operations Manager/Ethics Insights Team| Esri Lebanon/PMI
Jdeidet Al Maten, Al Maten, Lebanon
@Alankar, responsibility and commitment require a good knowledge of our inner selves... that you for your feedback
Great article Gretta. I think focus on the individual is key to all of the changes that are going on around us.
Its us and only us who can realize what changes that are evolving can be done only by "humans". In a world where AI, machine learning and "bots" are on an increase, compassion, empathy and ethics are the only ones that these artificial machines cannot do and will never be able to do. This is due to the fact that emotional aspect is unique to humans alone.
I am happy you have brought this forward to highlight the importance we as human beings can make and ensure the world has a future...sustainable future..!
Thanks
Gretta Kelzi
Operations Manager/Ethics Insights Team| Esri Lebanon/PMI
Jdeidet Al Maten, Al Maten, Lebanon
Thank you Deepa for your contribution and for adding a new perspective to the topics, that elevates the discussion to another level of thinking, and then re-focus on the emotional part. Great insight fro your side.
Gretta Kelzi
Operations Manager/Ethics Insights Team| Esri Lebanon/PMI
Jdeidet Al Maten, Al Maten, Lebanon
Thank you Tyler for your appreciation
Amany Nuseibeh
Speaker, Global Leader | Optimal Consulting
Sydney, Nsw, Australia
Thank you for sharing your thoughts Gretta.
We as individuals interact with others - people, the environment and everything around us. We can influence and get influenced.
While we as individuals "can do it" via taking ownership and responsibility for our actions, we also need others to create the momentum we need for a change to be meaningful and make an impact.
Gretta Kelzi
Operations Manager/Ethics Insights Team| Esri Lebanon/PMI
Jdeidet Al Maten, Al Maten, Lebanon
Dear Amany, Thank you for sharing your insights. I agree that the change starts from the "individual" but will definitely needs to leverage the surrounding environment with all its components.
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