Trust: The Cornerstone of Successful Project Management
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by Tara Leparulo,
Shenila Shahabuddin, Juan Posada Toro, Albert Agbemenu, Ming Yeung, Kannan Ganesan, Yannick Arekion, Witold Hendrysiak, Stelian ROMAN, Laszlo J. Kremmer MBA, CSPO®, CSM®, PMP®
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As an experienced project manager, Victor recently joined a new organization after a five-month break due to layoffs at his previous job. He was hired as a PMO Lead and was eager to make a positive impact on his new team. However, he quickly realized that the team seemed hesitant to trust him, due to his newness to the organization or the time it would take for him to fully engage with them.
Victor took various initiatives to engage with his team, scheduling regular cadence with them to get to know them better. However, he observed that the team was not seeking help when they needed it, and his peers were taking advantage of this situation. This lack of trust was affecting the progress of the team, the projects, and even the customers.
Victor felt conflicted because he wanted to help the team succeed in their projects, but he also wanted to earn their trust and inspire them as their leader. He did not want the team to be affected by negative energies resulting from the trust issues. However, he realized that he was not being honest with the responsibilities assigned to him by the management and was not justifying his role as PMO Lead.
According to the Project Management Institute's Code of Ethics and Professional Conduct, honesty is defined as understanding the truth and acting truthfully in communications and conduct. Victor realized that he was not being honest with himself or the organization, and this was causing him to feel like he was not fulfilling his responsibilities. He considered leaving the organization as he did not want to compromise on his integrity.
At the same time, Victor also realized that he may encounter similar situations in any new workplace, and his lack of confidence in himself may be due to the five-month break he had taken. He did not want to let his peers take advantage of this situation, and he wanted to find a solution that would align with his values and principles as a project manager.
After careful consideration, Victor decided to take the following steps:
- Communicate openly and transparently with his team: Victor scheduled a team meeting where he shared his observations and concerns with the team. He emphasized his commitment to their success and his willingness to support them in any way possible. He encouraged open and honest communication within the team and set up regular feedback sessions to address any issues or challenges.
- Build trust through actions: Victor understood that trust is earned over time through consistent actions. He made sure to follow through on his commitments, be transparent in his communication, and be approachable and supportive to his team. He also acknowledged and appreciated the contributions of his team members and recognized their efforts and achievements.
- Seek feedback and improve: Victor understood that self-reflection and continuous improvement are essential to becoming a better leader. He sought feedback from his team, peers, and mentors, and actively addressed any gaps or areas for improvement. He also invested time in building his confidence and skills through professional development opportunities.
- Stay true to his values and principles: Victor reminded himself of the importance of honesty, integrity, and professionalism as outlined in PMI's Code of Ethics and Professional Conduct. He made a conscious effort to align his actions with these values and principles and hold himself accountable for his responsibilities as a PMO Lead.
As time passed, Victor noticed a positive change in his team's attitude towards him. They started seeking his guidance and support, and the team's progress improved. Victor regained his confidence as a project manager and felt that he was justifying his role in the organization. He realized that by being honest with himself and others, and upholding his professional values, he could overcome the initial trust issues and create a positive work environment.
"What are your thoughts on how project managers can balance the need to be honest about their challenges while still fulfilling their responsibilities and justifying their role within an organization?"
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Luis Branco
CEO| Business Insight, Consultores de Gestão, Ldª
Carcavelos, Lisboa, Portugal
Dear Shenila
The topic that brought to our reflection and debate is very interesting.
Thank you for sharing and for your opinions.
I think it was enough to adopt the Nonviolent Communication model proposed by Marshall Bertram Rosenberg
Lissa Muncer
Transformation & Portfolio Director| Avanade
United Kingdom
Hi Shenila,
A very interesting blog - trust being such an important quality of project professionals. Having PMIs Code of Conduct is a helpful compass for Victor as he embarked on the actions he took and the trust he built with his stakeholders.
Hi Shenila, good topic and very contemporary. Project managers often face this dilemma and need help in such situations. Regardless of the challenges that PMs may face, remaining honest to one's profession and responsibilities is non-negotiable in my opinion.
PMI's Code of Ethics and Professional Conduct and its toolkits are a great resource for PMs to deal with such challenges.
Thanks
Extremely relevant topic in today's work dynamics, effective even for cross-functional assignment changes within the organization. it would be great to see a more expansive version in the form of a case study with industrial examples (if possible) to help a lot of people who might need the findings and experience from actual events to enable them adapt to changes more efficiently. But all in all, a very nice selection of topic.
Ming Yeung
Adjunct Professor & Acting COO/CPO/CRO (contract)| Blockchain Venture Capital Inc.
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Hi Sheila,
A timely blog for me where I was in a similar situation like Victor. I recently moved to the fintech startup and experienced an absence of trust and collaboration with the developers in upgrading our mobile app.
Moving through the Tuckman cycle, I employed similar techniques like those outlined in the blog.
Applying honesty (and responsibility and respect and fairness), as per the PMI Code of Ethics and Professional Conduct, to the real-life practice of project management would facilitate the best (and the most ethical) project outcome as intended.
Bryan Shelby
Retired| Retired and volunteering, having left "employment" behind!
New York, Ny, United States
Shenila, thank you for posting this. It gave me a new perspective on team dynamic situations such as this -- I had never really considered it from the ethical perspective. Without mentioning it directly, it sounds like Victor went through the steps outlined in the Ethical Decision Making Framework to find the best way to resolve his problem, which worked out very well.
George Freeman
Thought Leader | Author | Architect|
Florida, United States
Hi Shenila,
Thank you for a great post.
I believe Victor’s 4-step approach is solid. However, I would add one additional element that may seem somewhat capricious, but in my experience, provides expedited results when followed through with action (as represented in step-2). It’s based upon the following principle:
- Leadership is unbounded when trust has been requested and willingly granted.
In other words, when done with vulnerability and sincerity to the concern, “Requesting Trust” can create a contract between a leader and their team. The “willingly granted” aspect from the team does not necessarily represent that they “feel the trust,” but instead represents that they have made a “choice” to trust. With this contract, the leader then follows through with actions.
Even with demonstratable action from a leader showing that they should be trustworthy, “trust for many,” due to previous life experience, is a fickle feeling. However, if they are part of a “trust contract” (per se), the actions demonstrated by the leader towards trust have a reasonable opportunity to solidify past the feelings.
Juan Posada Toro
Customer Success Manager| Rockwell Automation
Envigado, Antioquia, Colombia
Hi Shenila,
Thanks for sharing. Excellent post and invites us to reflect. On the other hand, this is a great topic to keep in mind that PMI's Code of Ethics and Professional Conduct is a a good resource that all PMs and practitioners have to deal with this type of challenges.
Just to highlight, one of the key steps you mentioned and I fully agree is seeking feedback and improve in order to keep the balance (being honest and fulfilling our role). The only way to be better is through self-reflection and continuous improvement.
Hello Shenila,
Great topic pointing to some of the dilemmas we as Project Managers have to deal on a regular basis.
It was a smart approach Victor took in addressing the situation. The good thing is that, we have the PMI’s Code of Ethics and Professional Conduct to help align in our way of thinking when these issues arise. Another great document to fall on is the PMI Ethical Decision-Making Framework (EDMF). As we all know, the EDMF “describes steps that can be used to guide an individual in the project management profession through a process to make a decision when confronted with an ethical dilemma.” It comes in very handy and I will always fall on it any given time when these issues come up.
Thank you so much for this real-life situation.
very practical situation faced by many managers. Victor strategy was solid
Hi Luis Branco
Thank you for sharing Nonviolent Communication model proposed by Marshall Bertram Rosenberg. I have gone through it and it has opened new ways of communication for me which I did not know.
Binay Samanta
Director| Project & Environment Consultants
Dhanbad, Jharkhand, India
Successful completion of project is most important
Thank you George for sharing your insights and adding a valuable perspective to Victor's 4-step approach. I completely agree with your addition of the principle that "leadership is unbounded when trust has been requested and willingly granted." Your emphasis on the idea that trust is a two-way street, involving both the leader's request for trust and the team's willingness to grant it, is crucial.
The concept of "Requesting Trust" as a deliberate and sincere act, leading to a kind of "trust contract" between a leader and their team, adds a layer of intentionality to the trust-building process. It acknowledges that trust is not just assumed but actively sought, and that the team plays a role in the trust-building dynamic.
Your point about the fickle nature of trust for many, based on past life experiences, is also well taken. Establishing a "trust contract" provides a structured framework for the leader to consistently demonstrate trustworthiness through actions, helping to bridge the gap between feelings and concrete behaviors.
I appreciate your thoughtful contribution to the discussion, and it's evident that your experience has enriched the understanding of leadership dynamics. Looking forward to hearing more insights from you and others in this engaging conversation.
@Luis Branco
Thank you so much for your kind words and thoughtful reflection. I'm truly glad the topic resonated with you. I completely agree—the Nonviolent Communication model by Marshall Rosenberg offers a powerful and compassionate framework for dialogue and understanding.
Looking forward to more meaningful exchanges and shared learning ahead!
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